I've been playing at being a woodworker for a long time. I would consider myself a pretty good amateur at this point in my life. I still remember the first project I made and how I would do the same project now so differently. It proves that through the years by making a lot of bad, some good, and a few better projects, along with the mistakes, and techniques I learned, something stuck in my brain bucket. I have learned.......
1. Wood can not be stretched along it's length or width. Period.
2. If a board is cut an inch too short, it takes an act of God to add it back. For now, cut a little long and trim to fit.
3 Sandpaper does not last forever. It eventually will stop cutting and producing sanding dust. Buy more or learn to use hand planes. Hand planes are more friendly for your lungs.
4. You should dry clamp all projects before committing to gluing the joints, no matter how small or large the project.
5. Not everyone is going to like what you make.
6. You should be happy with what you make or at least with the process of making it.
7. Everyone makes mistakes. Even you will no matter how careful or how much you use the 7 P's. (proper prior planning prevents piss poor performance) Learn to work with the mistakes and around them.
8. Keeping your tools sharp is a must learn early skill. Find a method you like, that works for you, and stick to it.
9. Without trying new things and practicing, your woodworking will never improve.
10. Do not compare yourself to others. Compare what you did today with what you did yesterday.
11. Do not be afraid to say to that you do not know how to do something. Search the internet, read the woodworking blogs, or ask another woodworker. Practice doing it, make mistakes, and learn from it. Repeat as necessary.
12. There is more then one method or way of doing things. If your way works stick to it. If you see another way of doing, try it. If you like it, stick to that one. If not continue the way you were. There really isn't a right or wrong way.
13. Cut the tails first or the pins first? It does not matter. Cut them the way you are initially taught/learned to do it. Decide which is first after you've made a few hundred joints. This applies equally to whatever you are learning/being taught/trying - be it dovetails, chopping mortises, making grooves, etc.
14. Chose a way of working wood that suits you and what you want to do. Hand tool only or power tool only doesn't matter. Working wood is what matters.
15. If something doesn't feel right, don't do it. Trust your instincts.
16. Woodworking can be dangerous. Think and work safely. By the time you say aw sh...., it's too late.
17. After 40+ years of woodworking I still get excited making anything out of wood. I'll keep at this until I no longer get jazzed about doing a woodworking project.
accidental woodworker